Breadcrumbing Is The New Ghosting

So exactly what is breadcrumbing? Essentially, it's when someone responds just enough to make you think they're still interested, and gives you enough attention that you think not all hope is lost. It's yet another shady dating evasion tactic a la ghosting, although I'd venture to say that it's *gasp* even worse — which is saying something, as ghosting is pretty much world-renowned as awful these days.

"Breadcrumbing is worse than ghosting because it is more sadistic," Carole Lieberman, M.D., a Beverly Hills-based psychiatrist and relationship expert, tells Bustle. "Ghosting is merely a coward’s way out of a relationship. Breadcrumbing is a slow and painful death of a relationship, whereas ghosting makes it clear — eventually — that the person is gone."

So where did this new dating trend come from? Breadcrumbing has been popping up all over social media lately (there was even a Twitter moment about it), so clearly it's something that lots of people are dealing with in their love lives. I totally get why it's frustrating: there's nothing worse than holding out hope for something, even if your gut is telling you to move the eff on. In an ideal world, if someone wasn't into you, they'd be able to communicate that clearly and in a non-painful way, but alas — that's not always how it goes down. Open, honest communication is easier said than done for a lot of people, particularly if it's a situation where you're not really together and the lines are blurrier.


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